One can never stress on the importance of the relationship between parents and children. Parents can be your best friend, guide, mentor, tutor and trainer if you look very carefully. Children are in every way a reflection of their parents directly or indirectly.
Conflicts between parents and children is very natural, there can be a difference of thoughts and views. While children may not have that much of experience about life however they live in the present generation due to which their thinking will always be influenced between the reality of what the present scenario is and what parents are trying to tell them.
Keeping in touch with the present times and molding a child is a challenge that is faced by every parent. Resolving conflicts can be a really frustrating at times and can lead to further fights and lead to various other problems in the relationship. This is why it is essential that if there is a conflict between a parent and child, it should be resolved as soon as possible.
We all know that children can make demands which may not be right or suitable for them, however by arguing or screaming at them will not really help. Kids of today are really matured and understanding, as a parent if you can actually get the to listen to what you really want to say without screaming or shouting at them, you can easily get your point across.
Parenting is a real task, but it can become really easy if you actually go ahead and understand the root of any problem instead of reacting to what is shown in front of you. Many a times, children tend to behave in a particular manner as they are not actually able to convey what they really want to say or are not able to understand what is really bothering them. It is really important for a parent to understand what is actually worrying their child and the reason for their behaviour.
As a child, it is important that you should equally understand that your parent means nothing but the best for you and that is why they are constantly telling you and making you understand the difference between right and wrong. Though situations and times may be different however there will always be a logical approach to things and your parents are the right people to help you out.
Parents at times may seem to be a little different with their thoughts and views, however with the present situations and increase rates of crimes and other such social problems, it is natural for them to be a little extra protective about their children. making your parents your best friend and talking to them can actually help you out in a lot of manners.
Yes they may get mad, they may scream and shout, but if you really read between the lines, you will see that it is actually for your own good. If you actually confide in them, the one thing you can be sure is that your relation with them will actually improve in a lot of ways.